Q & A #BOSSBABE

Dress c/o The Retail Therapist | Sunglasses | Purse (Similar) | Shoes | Earrings

How did you get started?

I have answered this question pretty much here and here.
Here is a look into what the first year open was like.
I did a Q & A a while back, so posting that for y’all here.

Would you buy an established boutique or start your own if you had to do it all over again?

I would start my own, ALL over again. You learn and grow SO much through the entire process. Now that I have, I wouldn’t be opposed to buying an established one now.

Do you promote things you truly love or are there some collabs and such you should pass on?

I 100% love every thing I collaborate on or post whether it is why blog or my boutique.   For my boutique, I only buy for the store what I would buy for myself and I really think that is why it is successful.

I’ve never seen where you have been to market, so how do you find items for your boutique
I have been to market, quite a few actually, Atlanta and NYC are my favorite.  I have built wonderful relationships with my wholesalers there and they keep me updated on new pieces.

Do you use Shopify to run your boutique website?

Yes, I have used Shopify for my online store and storefront since we opened.  I love Shopify and their customer service is THE BEST.  I used wordpress for my blog.

My family has a 78 year old boutique but doesn’t have a website yet.  How do I go about getting one?

78 years?! WOW! Something is working so I am not sure I would go online! BUT if you are, I use SHOPIFY and I LOVE THEM!

Are your pictures taken with your phone? They are always so perfect.

Some are taken with my phone.  We also shoot with a Canon 5d Mark IV and the Fuji XF100F, which we just got and I LOVE!

Would you recommend an online only boutique for getting started versus an actual store?

No, there are so many online boutiques popping up these days.  It is much harder to grow online these days than it was 4-5 years ago.  You could be stuck with the same merchandise all summer long, having to run sales often.  You need that storefront in my opinion to get people in…to get the word out.  

Do you get your size from the store to try on?

Yes, every Saturday my girls will box up a package from The Retail Therapist and send me one of everything new we got in that week, I will have by Monday and do a try on session on Tuesday for you all then send the pieces I don’t want back to the store.

Does the company you order from send you samples for you to try on for us?

No.
If I am trying on The Retail Therapist pieces, that is pieces I ordered from wholesalers to sell in my store.  My girls send me one size small in the new pieces every week.

If it is from other places, all pieces I wear I purchase from boutiques, Nordstrom, Amazon, etc.

How do you run your store long distance?

Make sure you have amazing employees, which I do! If it wasnt for them, there is NO way we would still be in business.  They treat TRT as if it were their own and I am FOREVER grateful for them.

Best tip for starting a blog?

Stick with it. Post often.  BE YOU.

I started in 2011 and opening my boutique in 2014, my blog suffered a little because I was so focused on making my boutique successful.  I wish I would have grown them both at the same time.

How do you get brands to collaborate with you?

I am still trying to figure this out.  Right now, I reach out to companies I love.  Or companies that I am sharing on my Instagram will reach out to me after they see what I have done with their products.

Do you take a salary? You’ve said in the pasts posts your profit goes back into your boutique…

Yes, I do take a small salary.  My brother takes a small salary, and my employees are paid hourly.  Other than that, every single dollar goes back into my store.  Personal things I purchase are purchased outside of any dollar made from the store.  

How do you handle payroll and expenses? Do you pay the bills or have an accountant?

My mom handles all payroll (sometimes my brother does it if she is out of town) but we also have an accountant who looks over everything and handles monthly taxes, yearly taxes, etc.

What is your IG strategy to attract more clients?

Stay true to me and remain personable.  I told myself form the beginning if I couldn’t be me on social media I didn’t need to have it.  I am real.  I experience life.  I don’t hide things from you all.  

What advice do you have for people wanting to open a small town retail business?

Know not everyone in your town is going to support your business, and that is fine.  At first, I was so stressed thinking “my store is the only boutique in town, why would they not shop here…” now, I do not waste a second of my time wondering why they don’t, some people just don’t want to be fashionable…lol, JK, some people just will not support you because no one ever wants better for anyone or to see them succeed, which is really sad but often it is just how a small town is.  

Do NOT get me wrong, you will have those customers who you love so much and you work SO hard for, they’re the reason you love what you do.  They help you overcome the “why don’t they shop here” mentality really fast.  Every single customer that walks through those doors, you treat THE SAME WAY! You never ever know who is going to be your best customer.  I live for the 17 year old girl working at Sonic, saving up to come and buy the dress she’s been eyeing in our window for a few weeks on her way to work.  Of course the customer who can come in and spend $500+ is always nice, but I was once that 17 year old girl who had no where to shop in town but just wanted to look cute-do it for her!

Also, many people will copy what you’re doing-let them.  “Neiman Marcus is not concerned with what K-Mart is doing.”

After obtaining your license what should we do next?
Before obtaining your license, figure out the name you are wanting to use.  I wanted TRT to be named Closet Rich, but it is trademarked and already a boutique, therefore I knew if we ever grew, there may be issues.  Double check all names, actually triple check!

  1. Obtain your business license.  
  2. Get a sellers permit
  3. Get an Employer Identification Number (EIN)
  4. Open a business account
  5. Business Email
  6. Business Social Media Accounts
  7. Depending on where you are located, you may need certain licenses and permits (such as zoning and signage), check with your local government for those details. 
  8. GO TO MARKET
  9. Set your GRAND OPENING DATE (or you will never open, and do not push it back) #makeithappen
  10. CELEBRATE, YOU DID IT!!! 

Was your store successful from the beginning?

When I opened my store, I had about 13K followers, my store wasn’t successful from the beginning but we were busy.   Those followers read my blog and when I launched my boutique website, I just redirected those readers to my boutique.  

When owning your own business, do you put money back for retirement?

At this point I will be working until I am 100, lol.  I haven’t started putting money back for retirement yet but that is in my 5 year plan, especially now that we have Bo.

How much money should you budget for market the first time?

The first time I purchased merchandise for the store, I bought $13,000 worth of clothes! My budget was $10,000 but I am really bad at sticking to a budget.  I can now justify that it was worth it, lol!

What were your startup costs?

I took $15,000 and launched my website May 1, 2014. A week after the launch, I set up at Myrtle Beach Bike Week and made every dollar we invested back and we were able to keep buying merchandise for my online store.  I am forever grateful for The Beaver Bar, hehe!

When I opened my storefront, it cost us about $25,000 JUST to upfit my store (it was an old used parts store).  We redid the flooring, built walls, built changing rooms, changed all the lights, painted, built shelves, etc.  We later added our tanning salon and spent about $20,000 more to do that.  

Most of our racks etc. I had picked up when I saw things closing down over the years when I was in college.  We still use all of those racks today.  I am not sure we will ever not use them, they were the first pieces I was able to buy for the store on my own with my paychecks from places I worked when I was in college.

Biggest pieces of advice for an aspiring business owner?

Don’t give up. Understand there will be more hard times than good for the first few years, but it is so worth it!  You also have to understand being your own boss, you can get lazy sometimes…YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR THAT!

Do you think you will ever sell the business to work on blogging full time?

No, never.
I am The Retail Therapist, I buy everything for the store, I handle the social media, I handle the website…I couldn’t ever imagine one day getting on www.shopretailtherapist.com and knowing it wasn’t mine anymore…I love blogging, but I LOVE HAVING MY OWN STORE.

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Celebrating Baby Bo

Warning you now, this is a super long post but such a sweet one!
On August 19th, my amazing friends and family threw Shawn and I the most beautiful baby shower to celebrate Baby Bo that we could have ever dreamed of!  I swear every detail was PERFECT and we are so glad that so many of our friends and family could all get together, and eat some amazing food too!

The BEAUTIFUL hosts, xoxo! I am forever grateful for these ladies!

I wanted our shower in Virginia to be at my parents house, outside-under their string lights, and these girls made that happen.  My cousin Clint, from Your Grate Escape, catered our shower and talk about AMAZING! He did a Pasta Station (ah, the Alfredo sauce was DELICIOUS) for us with Caprese Skewers, Mini Salads, Cheeses, and the most delicious desserts you could imagine-if you haven’t had his brownies, you are missing out!  Our local florist went above and beyond on the flowers used as centerpieces and on my chair as well as the beautiful blue stroller.  One of my favorite touches to the shower was the adorable mini champagne bottles they gave as party favors.  On them they said “Baby Bo is coming, the time is getting near…When you get the big news, POP your bottle and send us a cheer!” So cute and I am hoping to get lots of snaps or selfies of everyone popping their bottles when they hear Bo has arrived!!! We cannot thank everyone who came (and the ones who couldn’t make it) enough for spending the evening with us and bringing Bo a gift or book! He has so many incredible books, including ones that I loved when I was a kid, and we cannot wait to read them to him.  Shawn has already been reading to him and it is moments I will remember forever.

During the baby shower, we were able to sneak some pictures by ourself and with family.  As soon as my mom told me about the shower, I KNEW we had to have Rachel Wells Photography shoot the shower.  Her photography is absolutely gorgeous and I could spend all day scrolling through her pictures.  Not only is she fabulous at what she does, she is also a sweet, sweet momma to two beautiful baby boys (the way she dresses them = perfection), so to have her to ask a million questions to is wonderful.  Rachel will be with us right after Bo is born to shoot his first photos in the hospital and we couldn’t ask for a sweeter soul to share this moment with us.

 

 

 

 

 

Dress: Asos | Heels: Asos

Last but not least, wanted to just take a minute and do a quick bump date for y’all!

How far along: 33 Weeks!

When is your due date: October 31st

Name: Boeing Everett Becker

Movement: ALL the time.  Our doctor gave us a “kick count” form to fill out and I think we pretty much filled it out in the first day, hehe.

Belly Button:  I kept saying if I can just make it through our baby moon without it poking out I will be happy!  We have been home over a week and it still isn’t out, so HOPEFULLY it will just stay in!

Cravings:  Sadly, I still haven’t had any cravings.  Thankfully when I am hungry I know what sounds good at that time and try and eat it.  Of course I love donuts but some donuts have been giving me worse heartburn than others, sounds so weird but it’s true.

Size: Bo is the size of a Cauliflower Blossom.  He weighs about 4.5 pounds.

Weight Gain:  Thus far, I have gained about 20 pounds.  When I was 13 weeks pregnant (I had lost weight) I weighed 109 and when I went to the doctor on Tuesday I was 129.3.

Physical Changes:  Other than my SUPER ROUND belly and growing boobs, my body has not changed a whole lot.  Supposedly “from the back I don’t look pregnant.” -Whatever that means, haha!

Nursery: Bo has a nursery at Lake Norman where he will come home to that is completely finished and his nursery in Myrtle Beach where he will eventually go is ALMOST done.  We’re just missing his changing table/dresser and a bookshelf that we ordered from Restoration Hardware.  Other than that, the nurseries are COMPLETE! When we are in Virginia, he will hopefully just sleep in a halo.

What belly butter are you using? Mama Bee Belly Butter

Will you be taking time off: Yes.  Black Friday is my hopeful “back to work” day, IF he comes on October 31st.  I LOVE Black Friday at the store so I hope to be back 100% then, but we will see how that goes.  I will still run the store from Lake Norman and maybe peek in a time or two! Thankfully, I have the best employees so I am not worried about it at all!

Any other questions you all may have, you can possibly find the answers on my 22 Week Bumpdate, found here.  Skin questions, what we have registered for/bought, my workout, etc is all answered there.  Shew, okay, sorry for the picture overload, BUT I JUST COULDN’T CHOOSE A FEW! Hope everyone has a WONDERFUL day!!! The NEXT time I post, BO MAY BE HERE!!! #ITSBOTIME

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Drinks By The Beach In February

Well hello there y’all!  Ah, it is so good to be BACK!  Life has been CRAZY since we got engaged.  We are getting ready for Spring at The Retail Therapist, planning a wedding, AND opening a tanning salon, Beach Therapy, hopefully in the next WEEK, yay!  We set our date for April 28, 2018, and you are probably thinking, “wow, why so far from now?” But for us, life doesn’t go on when we get married-someones life completely changes aka mine, as we currently live 6.5-7 hours away from each other and one of us has to relocate for at least a couple more days than we get to see each other now. Plus, I wanted a Spring wedding (most vendors I wanted were booked this April), and a summer at our lake house with NOTHING to do but to enjoy the lake, as it is our favorite thing to do.  With that being said, we set a date, found a venue, booked our photographer, and I found my wedding gown.  Shawn and I have also met with florists and my mom, brother, and I have been working with a wedding planner, my dear Susan who I am THRILLED that she is able to be a huge part of our big day.  When March rolls around, the store gets SUPER busy until the end of December and the more I get done now, the less I have to when it is harder to just up and run to Lake Norman on a Wednesday to look at the venue, meet with vendors, or check out bands for our wedding.

Anyways, I get my hair done in Myrtle Beach so I had to throw in a quick trip to South Carolina to see my sweetheart and get my hair “did,” you know?!  Saturday, Shawn wanted to “ride around to get a glass of Sangria and some appetizers.” We found ourselves in Litchfield at The Litchfield Inn hotel bar, Austin’s maybe?  We love “local” places, and everyone in there was 60+, but we had a beautiful view and cold drinks so we could not have been happier.  Since I haven’t been able to get my hair done in 6+ weeks (I normally go every 4 weeks), hats have been my everyday go to accessory and I LOVED that I had brought this one last minute as the weather was over 70 degrees on Saturday!  By the beach it was a little chilly so I am glad I had this scarf to throw around my arms.  I HATE blanket scarves because they’re SO thick to wear like a scarf, but I like them just casually thrown around like I did here.

Outfit Details:
Pink Top, Jeans, Scarf, Hat, Booties, Purse, Lipliner, Lipstick, Curling Iron

Thank you all so much for bearing with me and continuing to follow me through this crazy thing called life! I promise not to leave y’all AGAIN! 🙂 Let me know what you think of my new blog layout?!  I am really proud of it!  Also, let me know what y’all want me to blog about and/or if you have any wedding planning questions thus far! I will try my best to share our experiences with you!

Outfit Details:
Pink TopJeansScarfHatBootiesPurseLiplinerLipstickCurling Iron

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